The Good, the Bad, and the Believable

From the time I learned I could string sentences together and create a story, I wanted to write.  I started with fairy tales with princesses and evil witches, and then moved on to barely more realistic stories peopled with righteous children and evil adults.  The characters were cardboard stereotypes – mean teachers, unhappy orphans, and on and on.  People were either good or bad – there was no in-between.  It’s the way the world seemed to me as a child.  Everything was right or wrong, good or bad, fair or unfair.

Of course as we grow up we realize that the world is full of ambiguity, that most people straddle the fence between good and bad at some times in their lives.  Things are complicated.  I want the books I read to be complicated. I want the characters to be fully realized, complicated beings.  I want to feel empathy for even the most unlikable character.

As I’ve said many times, I don’t care a thing about liking the characters in a story or book.  Some of the greatest characters in literature are basically unlikable people (the first that comes to mind is the protagonist in JM Coetzee’s Disgrace).  But there is always some humanity there, something that makes me want to stick with them long enough to find out what happens.  That humanity is what makes a good character.  Not good in the way I thought back when I wrote about those princesses, but good in a way that makes you say, yeah, I believe in this person.

I just finished reading Tom Rachman’s The Imperfectionists, and while I didn’t love the book as much as many critics did, I admire the way he made even the most unlikable characters sympathetic in some way.  In the author’s interview at the end of the book, Rachman addresses this. “Several (characters) are tricky types, the sorts who, had I met them in a newsroom, might have prompted me to run.  But on the page, I had fondness for them.  It’s the writing that did this.  To form these characters, I tried to conceive of their motives, resentments, disappointments … Writing (and reading) is a sort of exercise in empathy… (it) stirs compassion that, in real life, is so often obscured by our own motives.”

I love that.  “Stirs compassion that in real life is so often obscured by our own motives.”  I believe that the best fiction does this, for the reader and the writer.  That’s what I want in my own stories.

Reads

So many of my friends ask me for book recommendations that I thought I’d dedicate a post here and there to what I am reading or have just read.  I don’t do reviews, so don’t expect long dissertations on any particular book.

  • Best book I’ve read lately:  Hands down, A Prayer for the Dying, Stewart O’Nan. If I told you it’s about a town with people dying from the plague, well, don’t let that stop you from reading this amazing book.  It is one of the best I’ve read in a long time.

  • Book I couldn’t finish:  Great House, Nicole Krauss.  Just couldn’t get into it.  Maybe I’ll try again someday, because I’ve heard really good things about it, but it sure didn’t do anything for me.
  • Book I’m reading now:  The Red House, Mark Haddon.  If you read The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Nighttime, or A Spot of Bother, Haddon’s first two novels, well, you won’t know a thing about this book.  It’s a totally different experience.  Haddon’s dry humor is nowhere to be found, or at least I haven’t gotten to it yet.  It’s written in multiple points of view, so it took me a while to get into it, but I’m hooked now.

  • Next on my “to be read” list:  The Chemistry of Tears, Peter Carey.  I’m a huge Carey fan, so I’m really looking forward to it.
  • Book I’m going to read because of reviews from fellow bloggers:  Gone Girl, Gillian Flynn.  Everybody who has read it has said great things.
  • Book I’m going to reread soon:  Anna Karenina, Tolstoy.  About ten years ago I tackled this book, mainly because it was a book I thought I should read.  After a struggle getting started, I ended up falling in love with it.  The new movie coming out at the end of the year reminded me how much I loved it and made me want to read it again.

Hope I’ve given you some ideas for your next read.

Crushing on Kevin Wilson

Kevin Wilson's short stories rock
Kevin Wilson's short stories rock

Word nerds will totally get this.  I have a big old crush on Kevin Wilson.  A literary crush.  If you read one of my posts from a few months ago, you know that I mentioned Kevin’s book The Family Fang as a book I wish I’d written.  Well, I just finished his short story collection from a few years ago, Tunneling to the Center of the Earth, and I can tell you I don’t just wish I’d written the book. I wish I could write just like him.  I have a serious case of love for his work.   His stories are quirky, and funny, and dark and surreal, and touching and strange.  Everything I like in stories (and people, for that matter).

When I was in the early stages of my bookish life, I would get literary crushes on characters.  Little Women’s Laurie was one of the first, as was Gilbert (from the Anne books).  But then, I started writing, and instead of the characters, I started falling in love with the writers.  I wanted to meet them, to talk to them, to write them silly school girl letters about how much I adored them.   How their words made the earth move for me.

The wonderful thing about literary crushes is that they can be anyone, male or female, straight or gay.  Literary crushes are gender blind and color blind. They are equal opportunity loves.  I have crushed on Lee Smith for years, and Steve Almond, and Toni Morrison, and Dorothy Allison.  I’ve been lucky enough to hear all of them read, and to speak to them afterwards.  Each time I blushed and stammered and desperately wanted to ask them to hang out with me.

The Family Fang
The Family Fang

Back to Kevin.  I met his wife Leigh Anne Couch last November at Hambidge Center, where her cottage was across the road and through the woods from mine.  Leigh Anne is an amazing poet, and a really funny and nice person.  At dinner the night I discovered who her husband was – I didn’t know for several days – I gushed on and on about The Family Fang.  It must have been rather annoying to her, since she was there, after all, to focus on her own work.  But she was great about it, and I managed not to beg her for an introduction.  Though that was before I read Tunneling, back when I was just “in like” with him.  Not in full-blown crush mode.

Anyway, Leigh Anne, I’m sorry, but I gotta say this: Kevin Wilson, I heart you.  Wanna hang out?